Posts Tagged ‘attitude’

Ramblings – Final Words

Saturday, February 6th, 2010

So I have come to the end of this blog. Quite a lot of rambling, but I do hope you have learned something from it. We need to understand the world of Spirit as it is, not as a fairy story. I wondered why I got upset when I heard those who channel begin their channeling with “My beloved” and words to that effect. I realized that Maitreya never does that. Whenever I speak with him it is like speaking with a normal person, but the normal person I am speaking to is totally unbiased, has so much love (yet without being soppy as I say), and who has all the answers if only we will listen.

It is the same with those who write that they are the “chosen channel” of a particular Master. Nobody is chosen. We elect to work with a Master, but nobody is specially chosen to do this work. Maitreya has told me that people are not “chosen” to do this work because every soul makes its own choice and there is nothing special about being a channel. It is very hard work, takes its toll on the physical body, and contains its own lessons also. Saying that one is “chosen” to channel is like saying “I am above everyone else because I am chosen.” What a load of crap! Sorry, but I have to express that.

Anyone can be a channel, nobody is chosen, but some do choose to do it. However, the Masters will work with anyone who offers their service. Channels can be your child, your best friend, even your enemy on the earth plane. Their purpose is to help you to move on, change an idea, attitude, etc. However, as with listening to a Master, we do not want to listen much of the time. I am always wary of listening to the channeling of those who say they are chosen or who speak of “My beloved” when they channel because, to me, they are not channeling. Spirit does not and never has spoken to me like that!

Judgment and Criticism

Thursday, January 21st, 2010

It is so hard not to be judgmental and critical of others. Personally, I fight this urge every day. I was raised by parents who tended to criticize everything – what a person wore, how they behaved – and this is something most of us were exposed to as we grew up. In those days there were no metaphysical books or writings as to why we do this; it was just a part of life.

I remember going to my aunt’s house and neighbors’ houses and finding they did the same. It seemed a normal part of life for me. Of course, I did it more to judge than criticize, but it was not good. But I did not know any better. My father was a very unhappy man. It took me years to realize that, and his judgmental attitude was caused by his insecurities and fears through lack of confidence. My mother was a lot better. She did judge people, but not as much as my father. Needless to say though, it was what I was exposed to as a child and as a teenager.

It was when I became a Christian that I began to change. The Christian teachings taught that I should not criticize or judge another, and I tried as hard as I could to see the good in every soul. I find it very hard these days to understand when hate mail comes into the website. Eighty-five percent of it is from the Christian community. According to them, I am channeling the Anti-Christ, and the judgment about that is often so harsh and nasty. I wonder how the people who write can say they are Christians, but then it is the same with factions of other faiths who believe in God but who kill, maim, and fight over land etc., in His name.

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Detachment – Final Chapter

Monday, December 14th, 2009

When I tell people about my own detachment I am often asked, “Do I still have compassion? Do I still feel the need to help people?” My answer to them is, “Yes.” I am human. I am also a very caring person. However, I am not here to live other people’s lives, which is what I was doing before. I am here to live my own life with my own lessons which are in my astrological natal chart. Because of that detachment I have been able to learn my own lessons a lot better and quicker. The beautiful thing about detachment is that, when one is detached emotionally, one can see so clearly inside the circle as one is standing outside. Intuitively one is more aware, and flashes of inspiration come a lot quicker and faster.

Just as when I was in the recession and had nobody to help me, I finally had to help myself. I know that, if I had not done so, I would not be where I am today. I had such a “poor me” attitude. It would have been so good if someone had helped me, but they did not. When one is in a “poor me” syndrome, one can very rarely get out of it when someone is helping to support that attitude. Detachment is not easy, far from it. However, if one can learn it one has an advantage over everyone else on the earth plane because one is not caught up with the emotional body and, as such, is a free spirit.

I thank God for astrological knowledge and being able to see the lessons of those who are suffering. Of all of the detachment lessons, the hardest of all was with Alan as he went through his lessons and learning. When we came together in the beginning, it was agony watching him and knowing I could do nothing about it. However like me, he is a better person for it. I hope those of you reading this will find the peace detachment brings.

Just Stuff 2 – Continued

Monday, November 9th, 2009

One of the biggest lessons of working for Spirit and with Spirit is having faith. The reason being that doubt and fear block the flow of energy whether that be the energy of money or something else we desire. We can put out there all we would like to manifest, however, if one has a defeating attitude and does not believe, have faith and trust, or doubts, then that thought (which is also an energy) will break the desire and stop the flow from coming to us.

The Universe is listening all the time to our desires and needs when we express them. Depending on how high you are in consciousness, the Universe may know before you do what you need. For instance you may find yourself saying, “I cannot believe it! A friend just gave me an almost new coat and I really needed one!” You are amazed at how you manifested what you needed without telling anyone.

Once you get into cosmic consciousness – which is where one faces one’s fears and when there are no fears left – the Universe can have access to your thoughts so quickly and easily because there is no fear there to stop the flow of energy and thought. It then tells those who help you from the other side – and we all have a Guardian Spirit and guides who help us – to help manifest for you very easily what you desire.

I have to admit I had terrible fear about manifesting money in the beginning. I just did not believe I could manifest or that I was worthy to receive. I did not realize that I was sabotaging myself by stopping the flow of the Universe trying to assist me. The few times I did manifest almost as quickly as I thought it, I was in such shock that I could not think about it. One time I needed a tin of some kind to put some papers in that I had found in a drawer and which were loose. I stood at the drawer and thought; “I wish I had a tin to put these papers in.” Within an hour, a neighbor across the road knocked on the door with a tin in her hand. “Can you use this?” she asked? I looked at the empty square biscuit (cookie) tin in her hand and just said “Yes, I can,” astounded at how it had manifested!

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